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Today on my drive into work, I was thinking about misbehaving at funerals, and how I no longer do it. It took me more years than most to outgrow the tendency, but I finally figured out that it's just plain wrong. I kind of owed Leslie an apology about her father's funeral when I was 20, but she died not knowing it was me that caused all the trouble. She blamed my cousin, Aly, instead.

(Aly, I'm sorry, but what I figured was this: it was better that she just be upset at you for giggling during her father's eulogy, rather than have her be mad at both of us. I've always believed that while confession is good for the soul, it's lousy for personal relationships. I own up to being a complete coward, though, if that makes you feel any kinder toward me.)

Sitting at a funeral, searching for edibles in my underwear )
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I'm ashamed to admit it, but I enjoy a good wake. The funeral yesterday was sad and, since it also included a Catholic mass, kind of long. The wake afterward, however, was a party where began each conversation with, "And how do you know...? Oh, yes! I think I remember you from their wedding!" I got to catch up with people I haven't seen in years, and made mental notes about which of us is aging better than the other. There was food and drink (Dos XX beer, to be exact) and, amidst the occasional tears, a lot of laughter. I had a nice time.

Most people knew me as "Ron's older sister." A lot of them remember my brother Ron as the groomsman who fainted at Mark and Kellie's wedding 13 years ago, right in the middle of the ceremony. We all congratulated him on managing to not pass out while he served as her pall bearer. Had he fainted while lugging her coffin from the hearse to the cemetery plot, though, I think it would have made Kellie giggle from her new abode in the Great Beyond.

Same Guests, Different Party )

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