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I was recently talking to a young man who'd grown up in the small town close to where I live – the one I mean when I say, "I'm going into town" (if I'm going into Houston, I say, "I'm driving into the city"). When I told him the area I lived in, he asked me if I ever noticed the burned place in the road on the way up to my neighborhood.

"I drive over it every day," I admitted, "when I hit the place where the asphalt buckles, I know it's almost time for me to turn, even in the dark."

"That was a bad accident," he said. "What was it, four or five people?"

"Five people died. Four of the older people in the van that got hit, and the 18 year old girlfriend of the guy driving the other car. One of the woman who got thrown from the van lived." Why I remember details like this is beyond me, but I do.

"She was 17," he said.

"The paper said 18."

"Nah, she was 17. I knew the guy who was driving. I went to high school with him. He's, like, 22, and she was 17."

"Really?"

"I tell you what, if they had put next to his senior picture, Most likely to kill 5 people in a car accident, I'd totally have believed it. I rode in a car with him once for like 5 miles, and I never did it again. You couldn't pay me enough to get in a car with him behind the wheel."

"Wow, he was that bad?"

"He was worse than that bad. I'm surprised it took him this long to kill someone."

"What happened?" the guys wife piped up. She recently moved from another town with her husband, and didn't know any of the people involved, or the story around them.

"On 249, just north of town, where it's 3 lanes going each way," I explained, "You'll notice this spot on the inside lane, right past an intersection, where the asphalts torn up and scorched. People drive too fast on that road all the time. It's a 65 zone, but you always see people taking it at 75 or 85."

"This guy was going more than 100," her husband said.

"They think he may have been racing with a motorcycle," I said.

"He ploys into this van full of people, and that's it – POW!" He demonstrated with his hand, one held out broad and flat to represent the van, and the other in a fist that slammed into it.

"They were all older people. One was this 82 year old man, and it was his first birthday since his wife died so his sister and her husband, and his daughter and her husband, wear taking him out to eat so he wouldn't have to celebrate alone. They were pulling out of the intersection when this kid slams into them." The two people I was talking to were the same age as the "kid," but that's how I always think of him since that I'm old enough to be him mother.

"There's a hill there, so if you're coming that fast there's no time to stop if someone cuts in front of you. He probably never saw them. It was a bad accident," her husband said, "the people in the van didn't die from the impact, they burned to death in the fire." Those were the 3 men.

"Both women got thrown from the car," I added, "One hit her head and died, the other broke her back but lived."

"And of course he killed his girlfriend, too."

"What happened to him?"

Her husband I shrugged at the same time.

"He's in a coma," her husband said.

"If he ever wakes up, he's facing 5 counts of vehicular homicide."

"I don't think he will," her husband said.

"Idiot," I said.

"A complete idiot," he agreed.

I drive over that spot almost every day. It's hard not to think about the accident, since my care goes "bump-ida, bump-ida, bump!" every time I drive over the spot. One bump for each man who burned alive, one ida for each woman killed by massive blunt trauma. I always wonder about the kid, since the papers never followed up with his fate. I assume he's still in a half-state between alive and dead, driving up medical bills that his family will probably never be able to pay off. The accident was in January. The rain has finally washed away the orange spray paint investigators used to mark the spot, and someone finally gathered up all the little white flags marking the debris field in the past few weeks. The pavement where the fire raged is still black and rutted, but that's the only sign left that anything happened there.

"He had a souped-up car and he did like to run it," the kid's stepfather was quoted as saying in the local paper.

If he doesn't pull through, maybe they should use that for his epitaph, along with the words, "See where it got him?"


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Date: 2009-05-05 10:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenandbronze.livejournal.com
I can't understand why people do this!

Driving is a privilege not a right!

If I had sight and hearing, I'd be waiting a while before I tckled getting my own license. My sister got her license right away, but thankfully she is a safe and defensive driver (sometimes not a good thing LOL).

Date: 2009-05-06 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
There is a scientific explanation for what happened.

Studies show that: Young = Dumb

Compounding the above is this rule of nature: Dumb + Testosterone = Reckless

The final compounding rule of biology is: (Young + Dumb + Testosterone) X (trying to impress your teenie bopper girlfriend) = Big Bloody Macabre Mess

Insurance adjusters know these formulas better than anyone, which is why is cost so much to insure a male driver between the ages of 16 and 25. :P

Date: 2009-05-05 10:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ithoughtsheknew.livejournal.com
Wasn't there an accident on a bridge on 45, outside of Conroe...maybe around The Woodlands...about 10 years ago? It seems like a 17 yr old girl died when the vehicle caught on fire. Man...I can't think of a worse way to go...::shudders::

Date: 2009-05-06 01:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
I think you're thinking of the I-45 overpass over Spring Stuebner, just south of The Woodlands. 2 teen-aged girls, I believe, who lived in The Woodlands died in a pretty awful accident there. For awhile there were several fatal accidents there every year, but that one was particularly horrific and seems to stick in everyone's mind.

The freeway used to bottleneck in that area, going from 4 lanes around FM 1960 down to 2 at Spring Stuebner then back up to 4 when you reached The Woodlands. They finally finished expanding I45 a few years back, and I haven't heard of any more accidents there.

Date: 2009-05-06 12:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenelycam.livejournal.com
How sad is that? The stupidity of youth. Though I think by that age, I was too old to be that stupid. Well in that way, I still have other ways of being stupid. :P

If that kid ever recovers, I would think (hope?) that he has that guilt for the rest of his life...

Date: 2009-05-06 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
Guys are stupid for longer than we are. I'm amazed almost any of them make it to their late 20's (by which time, most of them get some sense).

Date: 2009-05-06 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenelycam.livejournal.com
True. Greg was an idiot for a long time too and I've often wondered how he made it to the time he met me. LOL

Date: 2009-05-06 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenelycam.livejournal.com
And Bryan is STILL an idiot at age 35...I don't see any changes there ever...

Date: 2009-05-06 04:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] simplecity2htwn.livejournal.com
I was watching one of those real life in the ER shows and one of the doctor's said, "as long as there are young males, I'll always be employed".

Date: 2009-05-06 08:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
Funny, the people most critical of young men seem to be you guys who have survived and gotten past the whole more-bravado-than-brains phase of male development. ;)

Date: 2009-05-06 09:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] simplecity2htwn.livejournal.com
In the name of bravado, I've broken bones, lost teeth, gotten burned, cut, and injured in other fashions. Anybody who's stupid enough to look at me as an example and not heed my warnings earns my contempt. LoL


Date: 2009-05-06 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
Admit it; your 20-years-ago self would scoff at your current self and do all the same stuff over again. Wisdom is just ignorance that has gained experience and survived the process.

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