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I telephoned my father yesterday to see if I could score some free babysitting for the afternoon. Grandparents are good for that sort of thing. In fact, if I don't offer my father and his wife a chance to babysit at least every two weeks, I get a lecture. It had been 3 weeks, in this case, so I was surprised to hear hesitation on my father's part.

"We've had some changes around here," my dad said, "We've got a dog now."

"Oh, cool. Since when?" I asked.

It seems that two and a half weeks ago on my father's daily walk through the neighborhood, a miniature schnauzer followed him home for the better part of a mile. They put up signs around the neighborhood, had him scanned for a micro chip (he doesn't have one), and had his picture posted on a rescue website, all to no avail.

My dad told me that my stepmother was in love with the dog and it looked like they would probably keep him. "She says she doesn't usually like male dogs, but this one follows her around and she's really taken to him," my father said. "He's got a great personality. I don't think she's going to let me give him away." Still, they had not tested him to see how he would act around a child yet.

"What's his name?" I asked.

"He doesn’t have a name, but he answers to Hank," my dad said.

I was really looking forward to some time to myself yesterday, so I bravely offered up my son as a guinea pig to see if Hank could be reliable around the very young.

"I trust you guys," I said. Between their big back yard, the dog's crate and rooms with doors that can be locked, I figured that even if the two didn't get along, they could be kept separated.

My stepmother called me a bit later to ask that I phone them when I got close to the house so they could meet us in the front yard and introduce Hank to my son. "I don't much care for male dogs," she said, "But your dad is so taken with this one. He takes him on a walk every day and the dog sits with him on his lap when he's in his easy chair. You should see the two of them."

My son had some reservations about Hank when he met him, but Hank was very well behaved around my son. Our dog at home is retired, so being around her is not like being around a frisky puppy. Evie is 14 years old (ancient for a breed that is not supposed to live much past the age of 10) and she spends her days lying around the house and sleeping. She is mostly blind, completely deaf, and too arthritic to run and play. My son ignores her, and she returns the favor.

Hank, on the other hand, is only about 8 months old. He was already house broken, and was very well groomed and nourished when they found him. He also looks to be a pure bred dog. I wonder if, in this bad economy, his former owner didn't dump him in a "nice" neighborhood hoping someone would take him in.

When I returned that evening to pick up my son, he was sitting in my father's lap with a handful of kibbles. Hank was next to the chair, looking up expectantly.

"Sit," my son would say, and Hank sat. Then my son would drop a kibble on the floor that Hank would retrieve, and as soon as Hank ate the morsel the whole game began again.

"They've been doing this for the last hour," my stepmother to me.

My son was still intimidated by Hank when the dog followed him. At one point when the dog trotted toward him my son screamed and ran. Hank, being a terrier and being bred to chase small prey, barked and ran after him. I was impressed that when my father and his wife barked out his name, Hank immediately stopped and returned to them even though my son kept running. As young as he was, he responded to the command with no hesitation. The terrier instinct to chase is very strong, and this showed a great deal of self-control on the part of the pup.

"He's a good dog," I said as I went in search of my skittish son. "Keep him." I commented that we just needed to get my son accustomed to Hank and teach him not to run like that. Most dogs will chase anything that runs, and the best way to get away from a dog that frightens you is to stay calm and move away slowly. This is counter intuitive to a lot of children and even some adults.

"I think the dog can be trained," my dad agreed, "but I'm not sure about the boy."

Indeed. From what I can see, Hank is well behaved around children and does not seem inclined to bite them.

The same cannot be said about my son, but I think I'll keep him, as well.


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Date: 2009-03-02 06:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] simplecity2htwn.livejournal.com
I was volunteering at the Humane Society when a woman came in to return the Australian Shepherd she'd recently adopted. It seemed that the dog seemed to have a strong instinct/desire to herd the children and when it found one of them straying away from the herd, it would drive that child back in line by nipping at him/her.

Of course, I found this story hilarious and could barely contain my desire to say, "well what did you expect, it IS a herding dog".

At any rate, I'm glad you seem willing to work with Hank as he adopts to his new home. It's a good thing too. Schnauzer's have a tendency to love or hate you. It'll be important to stay on his good side.

Date: 2009-03-02 06:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
Hank is genuinely sweet. He and I hit it right off, and he was benignly curious about my little boy. All we have to do is train my son to give the sit command rather than run if he wants the dog to stop coming toward him, because Hank then stops and sits. He's probably one of the best behaved dogs I've met in a long time.

Keep in mind that my son is small, so even having a mid-sized dog like this run at him is like you or me having a great Dane come after us. It may take a few visits for them to get used to each other. The dog, however, showed no aggression, only a desire to play and give chase (normal dog behavior).

Date: 2009-03-06 05:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] noblwish.livejournal.com
Aussie Sheps are SO cool! And they don't nip that hard -- certainly not hard enough to break skin. That woman didn't know what a treasure she was giving up!!! Then again, there seems to be alot of misunderstanding surrounding Aussie Sheps, but I won't elaborate 'cuz it will make me VERY angry.

Date: 2009-03-06 05:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] simplecity2htwn.livejournal.com
I think that there is a lot of misunderstanding surrounding dogs in general. I find that people adopt breeds for all the wrong reasons and it ends up bad for the dog and bad for the owners. Often times, being a cute puppy will inspire people to make some dumb (or at least ill-informed) decisions.

Date: 2009-03-06 06:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] noblwish.livejournal.com
Too true! We fell in love with Aussie Sheps after adopting a stray, mixed-breed Kelpie that was born under our house. Before we could get her spayed, she had two litters of puppies, both with English Sheepdog and Dingo characteristics. We kept one of the Dingos from the second litter. Despite having many of the characteristics of the wild Aussie dog, he was the sweetest, most gentle and cuddliest thing ever... but still a VERY good guard dog! His Kelpie mother couldn't be kept within a fence -- she could climb and jump over ANYTHING, which is what they are bred to do. Our neighbors eventually learned to accept her, especially after she helped catch a burglar next door. The tales I could tell about that one would fill an entire journal!!!

Date: 2009-03-06 06:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
Are you talking about April? I know you loved her, but she was one of the few &^%!ing dogs I've met that I really &^%!ing hated. Her and her &^%!ing cat.

Though I did find it interesting that your dog owned her own cat. I'd never seen anything like that before, and haven't since.

Date: 2009-03-07 04:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] noblwish.livejournal.com
No, I think we got April from Leslie. She developed some issues after being taunted by some neighbor kids. What was it you hated about her?

I don't think you ever met Bridgette. We got her when I was 7. I think she died when I was 18 just before we left South Texas. Seriously, that dog had such personality she put Benji to shame! Which is ironic, since I wanted to name her after him but Mom and Dad said she couldn't have a boy's name. That, and we'd already had (and lost) a male Dachshound (sp?) we named "Benji."

Bridge was semi-feral, preferred to catch her own dinner (sometimes as much as four feet off the ground and in flight, poor dumb Grackles), and was known to climb 8-ft fences with whole deer carcasses in her teeth! 'Bout drove the neighborhood Taxidermist NUTS!!! I never went anywhere on my bike that she didn't follow, except the one time I tried to cycle over to another community five miles away -- one mile out of town, she informed me she'd had enough and headed home, so I had no choice but to turn back. I always knew I was safe with her around.

Date: 2009-03-07 05:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
I hated April because every time I saw her she put on her defense mode and acted like she wanted to bite me. Ears flat against her skull, teeth showing, low growl, eyes as hard as steel - what was there for me to like? Dogs love me, generally, and I love them back. I'm willing to make friends with strange dogs, so long as the dogs are friendly - which April was not.

I think all of your family's dogs were half feral, and some I'd say were three-quarters feral. They didn't like anyone but y'all. :P

inclined to bite

Date: 2009-03-02 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] regatomic.livejournal.com
good dog for the boy to learn with,.. the dogs i grew up with all bit(cept for the one that tried to kill me, gramps put him down),though i'm not afraid of them and understand their thinking (the farm dogs were all hunting dogs) i still don't much like dogs,..o.o

Re: inclined to bite

Date: 2009-03-02 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
With an early experience like that, I can understand your dislike of dogs. o_0

I like dogs, but they have to be socialized and trained to regard humans - no matter how small - as their pack superiors. The fact that this dog responds to even a child's command to sit is a testament to his basic good temperament and indicates whoever owned him before had already taken the effort to train and teach him.

My love for dogs is not blind. An animal that shows any predatory instincts towards children and/or other animals shouldn't be around kids, period. Even a good dog like this one should not be around small children without supervision. A little common sense goes a log ways.

Date: 2009-03-02 08:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidneymintz.livejournal.com
Good dog. Great name too.

Date: 2009-03-02 09:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
He's a wonderful dog, from what I can see. He likes to play, and he likes to cuddle, too.


Hmmmm. Loyal, obedient, playful, and loving: it would nice to find a man with the same such qualities as a good dog....!

Date: 2009-03-02 09:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenandbronze.livejournal.com
Good luck with the new dog!

Date: 2009-03-02 09:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
I'm kind of smitten with the little guy. If my dad's wife talks him out of keeping him, I'm never forgiving her. :)

Date: 2009-03-02 10:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] suspiria.livejournal.com
I was reading an article about how people are dumping their pets because they can't afford to feed them. I was absolutely shocked. I'd be willing to make a LOT of sacrifices to keep my pets. It's unimaginable to me to let them go!

That being said, it sounds like your dad has found a good one. Yay for that! =)

Date: 2009-03-03 03:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
If times were really hard, I can see finding a new home for a pet, but dumping a domesticated animal is absolutely immoral, since they can't fend for themselves. Sometimes it works out okay (it did for Hank, and my own "retired" dog came to me as a dumped 3 mo. old puppy), but a lot of them get run over or starve. Those that do manage to survive become feral and a public nuisance. People who dump animals are the real public nuisance.

Date: 2009-03-03 04:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] martina-d.livejournal.com
We had a Schnauzer when I was younger, she was a wonderful, smart dog. Plus, they don't shed. =)

Date: 2009-03-03 03:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
From my first meeting with this one, he seems like a wonderful, smart dog. I should have taken a picture of him. He's kind of got that gangly adolescent look to him right now, but he's still adorable.

Next time, I'll snap a picture so you all can see him. :)

Date: 2009-03-03 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenelycam.livejournal.com
Aww...how sweet!!! And how nice that Hank listens so well. I love how your dad and stepmom blame the other one for why Hank is staying. Sounds like something my parents would do. LOL

Date: 2009-03-04 09:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
I thought it was hilarious that they blamed each other for being the "one" who wants to keep the dog. I guess its an old married couple thing. *grin*

"Hank"

Date: 2009-03-06 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] noblwish.livejournal.com
I like that name. Ya' know, Daddy once answered to "Hank" for a couple who owned his fave newstand. He always signed his checks with his first name so they didn't know he went by his middle name. Hank is a nicname for Henry, so that's what they always called him and over a 15 year period he never corrected them. I think he kinda liked it.

Sounds like Hank is a good dog.

Re: "Hank"

Date: 2009-03-06 06:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com
My dad's usally pretty bad at naming dogs, but I guess this one kind of works. Next time I'm over there, I'll snap a picture of him. He's pretty cute. :)

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