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ninanevermore ([personal profile] ninanevermore) wrote2006-05-25 03:31 pm
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Wednesday - Duck!

Today on the drive into work I was thinking that sometimes I am surprised when I look in the mirror and see the face of a woman and not a rubber ducky.

I like the duck's face better. It is more a reflection of me than my real face. My real face is forgettable, invisible, average. It doesn't match what's going on in my head at all.

The duck is bright yellow; everyone notices something that bright. It matches my mind -- bright and strange and more than a little frivolous and silly.

I once saw a grave marker that had no name on it, just a date and an engraved picture of a flamingo. I am going to make it known that when I die, I want a picture of a rubber ducky engraved on my headstone. If there's no money left over to put my name on it after that, it doesn't matter. No one will remember my name anyway.

But I want them to remember my duck.

[identity profile] lil-ms-drama.livejournal.com 2006-05-26 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, they only take 1 gram of ashes, so I still have plenty to find an urn for even with 5 family members taking a portion of his ashes too.

What I'd like to find would probably have to be custom made and therefore costing megabucks. I'd like a pewter urn shaped either like comedy/tragedy masks or a film canester, or an old-time camera.

[identity profile] neanahe.livejournal.com 2006-05-26 06:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Cheaper alternative: find a real film canister or old camera, put the ashes in it and have the whole thing cast in bronze.

[identity profile] lil-ms-drama.livejournal.com 2006-05-26 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I never thought of that. That's a great idea! Thanks!